A Child's Christmas


Christmas time in my schooldays has happy memories for me. It was the one time of year when all our family got together at Grandmas house behind the bakery. I had four aunts and uncles, nine cousins and with my sister, mum & dad, grandma & granddad, we all met up for a big family party.
Grandad baked the turkey in the bakery oven, Gran boiled the Christmas pudding in the copper in the back place and prepared all the vegetables. Around mid-day we would all begin to arrive and congregate in the big dining room at the rear of the shop. Grandad would come in with a jug of beer and give the men a glass and the ladies would partake of a glass of port and help Gran in the kitchen with the final preparations. We kids would wander off upstairs to the big sitting room which was situated over the shop. Here a big fire would be blazing in the hearth and the room decorated with garlands and holly, and in one corner would be a big Christmas tree trimmed with tinsel and loaded with small gifts, sweets and crackers, or bon-bons as they were then called. We would discuss what presents we had found in our stockings earlier in the day and contemplate what we would get off the tree later on.

When dinner was finally ready the grown ups would sit at the big dining table and the children at a smaller one.

Grandad would carve the turkey and there was always some ribald comment about “the parsons nose”. After Gran said grace we all tucked into the turkey, roast spuds, sprouts etc. followed by Xmas pud. Brandy sauce & mince pies. I’ve often wondered how Gran managed to cater for us all, but she did and there was always plenty to go round. After the meal the ladies would help with the washing up and the men retire to the sitting room, where Grandad handed round a box of cigars and glasses of brandy. We kids would play with our toys or games but before long all that could be heard from the sitting room would be the snores of the men as they gave way to the effects of a heavy meal and the brandy.

No one really wanted any tea, but Gran always laid out a table of cold meats, pickles etc. trifle and cakes, in case anyone got “a bit peckish” later on as she put it.

In the evening one of the highlights was always Uncle Berts magic tricks and indoor fireworks display. On reflection it was all very tame but it fascinated us kids to see him stick a nail through his finger or appear to swallow a walnut and then retrieve it from the seat of his trousers. He would balance a spoon on a pin stuck in the table then rub a candle in his hair, hold it close to the spoon and it would revolve like a propeller. The fireworks would include what looked like a heap of coloured sawdust and when placed on a tin lid and fired with a match, blossomed into a lovely bunch of fern. Alas! It collapsed into a heap of ash as soon as it cooled down. After Uncles entertainment we played party games

And maybe a sing-song round the piano, then it was time for the Christmas tree. This was always the final item before we went home. All the gifts on the tree were listed on slips of paper and placed in an empty box, this was then passed round and each person took a slip and you got whatever gift was on the slip. They were only small gifts like a cracker or bag of sweets or chocolate pennies or pink sugar mouse or a balloon. The box was passed around until all the gifts had been cleared from the tree. I remember one time Uncle Percy got four pink sugar mice one after the other which caused some amusement.

Just little things, but they stick in the memory as reminders of a happy childhood a long time ago


 


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